Should churches and families or the state be trusted with sex education for children? Before the last half of the 20th century, children received information about sex in three ways. From religion, their family or they just learned it ad hoc, on their own. The sex act isn’t very complicated and it is probably safe to assume that there’s nothing that a modern day pornographer can dream up that some prehistory neanderthal didn’t paint on his cave wall. Logically, therefore, sex shouldn’t be part of political debates.

The controversy, mostly, isn’t about how someone stimulates their genitals. Sex education for children that simply teaches anatomy and how to engage in the different types of sexual intercourse can be accomplished with a short lecture given by a medical professional, an afternoon discussion at a table with a parent, or by simply having sex with someone more experienced. (Some might even argue that watching a couple of pornographic videos can also be a step-by-step guide. but I’m not one of them). Unfortunately, never in human history has sex ever been so complicated, as it is today.

The politics are who’s morals get taught.

Trying to teach people what they can and should not do in their bedroom has, historically, been mostly a failure. Young men were taught that masturbation was wrong but they still did it. Sexually sharing your spouse with someone else has been labeled wrong, but the term cuckold dates back to at least 1250 AD. Sodomy has been almost universally condemned as wrong, but women have practiced anal sex as a form of birth control and men have been asking for their prostate to be stimulated for all ages. Real rape is inexcusable, yet studies show the majority of women fantasize about it. What someone enjoys sexually, can’t be taught, it can only be experienced through exploration and that might make sex education for children irrelevant.

The battle is then, about whom someone can or should have sex with. Obviously, religions and traditional families have their own beliefs on this issue and sex education for children often can mean promoting celibacy until marriage and refraining from homosexual intercourse. There are many people and groups that don’t agree with these values. Until recently parents have taken for granted that they had the right to choose the education for their children in this regard. Someone can vehemently disagree with the kind of moral instruction a child receives, but unless they’re that child’s parent, they have no say. However, the state is now beginning to assume that its authority takes precedence.

“The nine most terrifying words in the English language are, ‘I’m from the government, and I’m here to help.’” – President Ronald Reagan

From the perspective of an independent businessman, a pornstar / pornographer, I know that mistakes can be fixed, until totally screwed up beyond recognition and repair by government involvement. Therefore, allowing the state to take over moral instruction of children is a ticking time bomb that will make the Covid disaster look tame by comparison. From the age of 5 to adulthood, approximately 13 years, the public school system has to teach children how to read and it fails with more kids each year. So why should they be entrusted to teach sex education to children, when it is something with importance paramount to the continuation of our species?

Creating conflict is NOT good for children

Of course, they point to a myriad of reasons for this failure. Everything from racism to lack of funding, and even recently pinning it on lockdowns and too much parental involvement. The fact is that by their own words, these institutions are failures and should not be entrusted with the care of children. Sex education for children is just going to become a soapbox for people with an agenda. It’s neither to pass along factual scientific information, nor necessarily good for the emotional well being of a child, or the young adult that s/he becomes. The institutional takeover of sex education for children; promotes that their world view is superior to that of the child’s loved ones and the community that their family is involved in. This creates a conflict within the child, who is torn between fitting in at school and loyalties to family. Paradoxically, parents, in sending their child/ren to fend for themselves amongst the antagonists at school are the ones originating the mixed message.

As a sex worker, it’s very difficult to agree with the values and opinions of the more Orthodox faiths and families. Understanding the government’s ability to create large-scale social problems and to breed dysfunctionality; it is, in the vast majority of situations, in a child’s best interests to receive their sexual instruction from their parents. – It’s truly a case of choosing the devil that you know, over the devil that you don’t know.

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Her eyes barely visible, she could have been a “poster-child” for a pious Muslim but taking off her clothes, she exited her world and entered mine, becoming one of the few pious Muslim women in porn. Within a few minutes, she was naked and sucking my cock. She’s in her early 30s and I took her measurements for my records, 40-23-36 and natural C cup breasts. In Islam it’s recommended to shave off the pubes, but this video project required some fuzz, so my co-star only trimmed her bush short and shaved back from her meaty lips. During our 1st set of stills, she had already started to get wet and there was nice white cream visible when she pulled her pussy open. She was understandably nervous and because there was no need for vulgar talking in this video, I remained professional, polite and friendly.

We went through the 3 positions, missionary, cowgirl and reverse cowgirl. Her natural feminine lubrication was very visible in most of our scene. So if she was feeling guilty about what she was doing it, she didn’t let it show. Her enthusiasm was less sexual and more trying to impress the new boss by doing a good job. In my career I’ve worked with women that were absolutely gorgeous but were equally a dead fuck. I’ve also filmed very plain girls that gave me such great scenes, I was left wondering if I had captured sex or an exorcism. The images we were capturing was nothing extreme, just a good and very strokable porno sex. For a moment I caught myself wondering that if I made a line about pious Muslim women in porn would they all be this pleasurable to work with.

I came on her face, and after pausing for stills, she took a shower while I counted out her pay, in cash. When she left the shower the adhan (أَذَان) sounded on her phone and I asked her to join me in the bedroom for a few moments. My business partner questioned me if I had any guilt about using pious Muslim women in porn. But I don’t. The Muslim community had failed her and I was offering her a solution, albeit a bad one but a solution nevertheless. Desperate times call for desperate action and this was all I had to offer. Despite any regrets she might be feeling, she was happy for the work.

Sam Shaft, a pornographer, once said, “Inside every great woman is an even greater whore.” He’s right, because part of being female is knowing that even in the worst situations she has something of value that she can trade for money, food, etc. So Muslim women in porn might not seem like that big of a deal, especially when you consider nations like France where there is no shortage of very secular French born Muslims. Outside of Islamic nations, women who embrace wearing the niqab or burka, normally do so for piety reasons, they’re rare and even more so in the United States.

People take many paths that lead to a career in porn. I’ve seen my share of drug addicts, those sexually abused as a children, swingers and even single mothers wanting a flexible job. However, it doesn’t appear that pious Muslim women in porn are in any of those categories, instead they all simply need the money. The Islamic community tends to take care of its own and in my way, I’m doing exactly that. It’s a very bad comment on current state of affairs that a woman should have to put aside her religious convictions, just to pay her bills.

I’ve worked in Europe with many secular Muslim women in porn. Prior to 2019, I could only count on 2 fingers how many came in my office wearing a full face covering. In both of those cases, the women were widowed refugees and I speculate that they had already exchanged sex for something of value. Escorting tends to be discreet and the risks are over-hyped by Hollywood, but it’s mostly late nights and you frequently have to deal with assholes, drunks and men who need to be coddled. In many ways, making porn can be a safer and easier alternative, plus there’s also deniability if discovered. Since the start of Covid, I’ve filmed my 5th niqab /burka wearing Muslim women and none of whom are widows or refugees, and all of them are in the United States.

What the hell is going on?

Prior to platforms and webcams, the average rates per scene for women in porn were:

• $400 to $600 for girl-girl
• $800 to $1,000 for boy-girl
• $1,000 to $1,200 for anal
• $1,200 to $1,500 for double penetration.

Obviously, some people paid more while others paid less and some female talent (or their agents) asked for even more. But all things considered, equal, those were the rates just over 10 years ago.

I knew a lot of low level porn girls that would do 2 scenes a day and earned between $1000 to $3000+. Today, the overwhelming vast majority of women producing their own content for the Internet and/or doing webcams are not earning that much in a month. No doubt, there are some women making serious money on the Internet but they’re the exception and I’m willing to bet that many of those have contact / relationship with the site’s owners/management. I get the feeling that most Muslim women in porn tried to make money on the Internet before considering real porn.

Feminism is lying when it claims that it represents all women and a desire for a more equitable society. It’s abundantly obvious that they’re quick to embrace and take credit for the success of any woman who becomes a lawyer, doctor or some other prestigious profession. But it’s a serious, yet subtle, marketing mind game when it comes to any woman who decides not to invest 6 years in college getting a master’s degree majoring in one of the sciences or business. Their mantra is that they support all women, which included traditional and conservatives ones. But the reality is that feminists maintain their distance from them. And, in the case of sex workers, they’re barely acknowledged save to paint her as a victim or, should the situation demand it, claim it’s her right to chose. Therefore being both traditional and a sex worker means that pious Muslim women in porn are screwed over twice.

Pornographers and other sex workers who have been in the industry for several years eventually figure out that government, big tech and none of the civil rights organizations are our friends. In fact, I’ll wager that they’re all self-serving assholes, who have found a way to make money from us without having to pay. The value of any and all women has subsequently decreased and the proof can easily be measured in the sex industry. It’s measurable by what type of woman are now trading sex for money and how much they’re getting paid for it. So the presence of pious Muslim women in porn means that we’re probably on the verge of some sort of collapse because other options aren’t available. And when they’re in front of my camera, it means other sex industry opportunities are equally failing to put food on her table.

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As a student of psychology and a child of a dysfunctional family, I have long been fascinated by the Nature versus Nurture debate. To the layman, just having the debate suggests that the answer is black and white, but nothing could be further from the truth. What we do know is that there are pivotal developmental stages, which can with the brains natural elasticity form, either a healthy psyche or perverted psychosis. Repeated exposure to things like violence on TV, (in video games, etc) has been proven to numb the viewer to violence in general. And aversion therapy is a tried and true clinical technique to change someone’s cognitive behaviors.

With critical race theory and attacks the patriarchy, war has been declared on the unchangeable biological nature of a portion of the population. What happens on a psychological level to children who are taught day in and out to be apologetic for their existence? How does the physical nature vs nurture of a child rectify that being born white and male, the very act of being assertive is seen as an act of aggression? How do Caucasian boys find their place in the classroom and later society when they are constantly being beaten down? Do they get labeled as troublemakers and keep some sense of personal identity or do they acquiesce and develop more demure, traditionally feminine traits? Or do they end up on their knees begging for forgiveness (in some pseudo-sexual) act of submission while being humiliated by some racist person who is demanding apology for his white privilege?

Could this be conflict by design?

In the nature versus nurture debate, the fact is that a forceful environment can overwrite someone’s biological tendencies. One thing for certain, at least from my perspective, is that the number of effeminate males is growing. They turn to anyone that will listen because something is missing in their lives, something that therapists might not be legally allowed to bring up as an option. Much like in the school system with it’s strictly secular policies, a system that embraces atheist dogma; the medical industry demands that everyone leave God / Allah (swt)/Jehovah out of the equation. Truthfully, they can’t even suggest that something is wrong with a caller’s desire to take the next step in his feminine transition. They can only act as a sounding board. eg. “Yes this is common, no you are not unusual, no you are not strange, etc.” Hopefully something changes soon, or we may find that Islam’s statement that 50 women supported by one man, might have partially started out as impressionable little boys.

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I won’t get into a theological debate or justify my beliefs. However, I will go on record as saying that while I believe in God, I’m obviously not a member of the choir. Don’t worry, I’m not going out of my way to corrupt any young Christian ladies. But all bets are off, if they show up at my door, looking for work.

A very ravenous Baptist minister has discovered that I live and film within a 2 minute walk of his church. Somewhere in his twisted mind , he has gotten the idea, that I’ll make a good stepping stone to both further his career and grow his congregation. Now I fully support prayer, showing respect to the Divine and everyone’s right to assembly. But I am not so naive as to believe that churches are run by nothing but goodwill volunteers. I know they are filled with politics and those playing that political game are looking for both power and financial gain. Ministers are nothing more than local politicians.

I want my cut when anyone uses me to make a buck.

Needless to say, I’ll go for the throat the moment anyone tries to use me without paying me. As far as I’m concerned, this situation is no different. As luck has it, my enemy reads SteeleHard.com So without further diatribe drivel allow me to introduce everyone to the swinging Baptist Pastor and his slut wife.

These photos are from the 1990s, but rest assured, I’ve got stills and footage from as recently as a month ago. I want an end to the weekly group prayers in front of my home and the passing out pamphlets, to the people who visit me. Otherwise expect me to escalate this. I’ll post everything that a member of your organization has given me, complete with faces.

By the way, in case you haven’t noticed…you have more enemies than me. So think next time you hypocritically attack someone you think is an easy target.

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